Building Meaningful Connections

You have heard it many times, you must build connections or network to land a good job.  While there are many reasons to make connections and network with others, one benefit of building these connections is related to your job search. 

So, where do you begin building meaningful connections?  Good news – opportunity is all around you.  You can build connections with your coworkers, fellow volunteers, on social media, and by attending networking functions.  No matter where you look to build a connection, here are a few tips to help you build a better one: 

• Learn to socialize outside your office and work.  This may mean attending dinner or functions with coworkers, or joining other events to meet new people outside of your office.  When you do socialize outside of the office, your goal is to learn more about the other person.  Do not focus solely on “what they can do for you,” but focus on what you can do for them.  When you build a relationship/friendship out of these connections, you will find these connections going to bat for you when a position opens. 
• You must always show your appreciation for having that connection in your life.  People respond to positive messages, and want others around them that are positive.  Show that you care by being attentive.  If you know a connection is doing a big presentation today, check in with them and see how it went.  Do not wait to let others know you appreciate them.  Tell them! 
• Always treat your connections as you want to be treated.  Your mom probably use to tell you this all the time – “treat others as you want to be treated.”  It is true.  Going the “extra” mile with your connections, while most likely turn into friendships that will last.   

Building meaningful connections is important whether you are looking for a new job or not.  It is important to have positive people in your life and socializing with others will help you build lasting relationships that matter.  Start networking today and building those connections that will not only help you in your job search, but help you live a happier life. 

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