Interviewing is Like Dating

When was the last time you went on an interview?  For many, it was probably about the same time they went on a date.  While this analogy may have many scratching or shaking their head, the truth is that interviewing for a new job is very similar to dating in many, many ways.

• Stop and think about the last time you went on a date, you probably had feelings of nervousness, anticipation, and even apprehension.  What feelings did you have the last time you went on an interview?  Most likely, they were the very same feelings.  Think about how you handle your feelings when on a date, and then use them when you are ready for your interview.  You typically will calm once you have met the person and start having a conversation.  An interview is a conversation!
• When you go on a date with someone, the goal is to get to know that person and determine if you want to continue getting to know them.  Interviewing is very similar.  While the company is looking to get to know you better, you must do the same.  Make sure that you ask questions to get to know the company better and determine if you want to work there.  Ask questions that are important to you about company culture, the environment, and any other benefits that are important to your lifestyle.
• At the end of the date, you usually make a determination whether you will call or see this person again, same is true at the end of an interview.  Once you have determined if this company and position will fit in with your overall goals, you will need to follow-up.  If the company is not going to fit, it is important to send a thank you note and state that.  They will like the honesty.

You do not go on a date expecting to marry the person at the end of the date – same is true when you go on an interview.  Do not expect to get the job offer right there.  The interview is the “date” where you both will get to know one another and determine if a further relationship will work!  When you think about your interview as such, it will make it much easier to navigate and get the results you want.


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