There was recently post by Paul Petrone on LinkedIn titled The
Pose Every Recruiter Should Strike to Start the Day. This was a great
article and even if you aren’t a recruiter, I recommend you go to his LinkedIn
profile and read his post. While he
wrote the article to recruiters it is a lesson that every candidate, every
person can use to bolster their confidence before a meeting or interview. In fact, anyone faced with one of those
meeting that gives us that moment of pause, is worthy of this action.
I use this “Superhero Pose” technique in my Interviewing
Skills classes that I teach. I tell my
candidates to take a minute. Perhaps you
slip into the restroom before your meeting or interview and strike your
favorite superhero pose; put your hands on your hips, thrust your chest and
chin out and survey your domain before you.
Try it and you will see that it really works.
Brian Tracy, a well-known motivational speaker uses a
different variation on this. He suggests
that you look yourself in the mirror, put your best smile on your face and
repeat out loud, over and over again “I like myself, I like myself, I like
myself”. I use this in my class as
well. I have the students turn to each
other and do this exercise.
So, turn this around.
Imagine that you are in your office preparing a customer meeting. You
are putting the final touches on your presentation. You are pumped! This is a really big deal! Your boss walks into your office to pump-you-up. He asks; Are you ready?! Don’t blow this presentation! We desperately need this account, and storms
back out of your office. You are
instantly filled with dread. Why? The opposite effect just happened because
your brain is visualizing your failing and is flooding bad chemicals through
your body. Now imagine this same
scenario but this time your boss storms into your office and says; You got this
buddy! You are the man! You are going to
knock ‘em dead today! I’ve got your back,
and storms out of your office. Now you
have those positive affirmations and your body is awash in positive chemicals.
Why do these techniques work? Simply because these actions (the positive
ones) stimulate your brain to release positive chemicals into your body and you
simply feel better; more confident; happier. Try these things and see if they
work for you. Come on! You know you want
to go into the restroom and give it a try…
David (Mac) McElhaney
Managing Partner
Global Recruiters of Huntsville
Global Recruiters of Huntsville
102 Clinton Ave, West
Suite 201
Huntsville, AL 35801
Phone: 256-533-1444 Ext
201
Fax: 256-418-4485
Mobile: 407-341-4462
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